Vanilla in Vancouver
Are you a strong modern woman who needs a
man who not only understands your your liberal
views but shares them? The Vancouver man
might be exactly what you’re looking for. Likely
having moved to Vancouver to get away from
what he considers his backwards hometown or
motherland, the Van man is well educated and
proud to call himself a male feminist.
The Van man could be considered a shy guy.
Bangsandabun.com has even called them
“gonad deficient”. Women will often have to
make the first move, and even after you do
he’ll give up quickly if you’re not responding
promptly to his messages and phone calls.
It’s said that Vancouver men are the pickiest
in Canada, have high expectations of how
attractive their partner should be and
Vancouver in general has a reputation for
being a difficult city to date in. That’s
because the regular game of cat and
mouse won’t work with a Vancouver man.
You’ll have to make it crystal clear that
you like and want to spend time with him
while making sure you’re not coming
across too strong.
He’s definitely not a player, but if he’s too
timid and vanilla to approach women, and
he’s going to think an assertive woman is
a psycho, why bother? Because once you’ve
been welcomed in his life, you’ll find that
the Vancouver man can make one of the
best partners for a contemporary woman.
Conversations with him will be deep and
interesting, as he’s well educated, has a
lot of strong and progressive opinions
and a career driven woman will impress
rather than intimidate him. Because of
the high expensive of living in Vancouver
he’ll be earning more on average than
men in other major cities. His impressive
resume will He’s well dressed and well
traveled. He tries to leave the country at
least a couple times a year and enjoys new
foods, art, and music. That love of food
means he’ll be a regular at 3-4 amazing
restaurants and have great
recommendations for sushi on date night.
However cleaning living is important to
him so he can cook. He’ll have fresh salmon
that he caught himself on for dinner, and
work out a few times a week. Because of his
adventurous spirit, he’ll prefer outdoor
activities like hiking, kayaking, biking, and
snowboarding to a daily hour in the gym.
You won’t have to clean up after him, He
keeps his apartment clean, organized, and
modern. Though his family won’t live in
the city, his surrogate family; his best friend
does so that opinion will be very important
to him. Since they’re so alike, if one of them
likes you, they both will.
The Vancouver man is a catch. The problem
is getting to him. He will never take a girl he
meets in a bar seriously, and approaching
him at whole foods might be to forward for
his Sunday afternoon. If you don’t have the
right personality and opportunity to make
the crucial initial approach, you might miss
this one. If you’re interested in meeting the
Vancouver man, the easiest way to get it
right is to give us a call!