9 Summer Sex Life Dares to Try Before Labour Day
End summer the sexiest way ever… Race you to Labour Day. ;)
1. Make a Steamy Wager
With baseball season in full swing and the World Cup kicking off, there’s no better time to up the sports-watching ante with a sexy bet. “Make oral-sex wagers with your man while he’s watching sports,” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin. “It’s a really playful and fun way to bring more intimacy into your relationship,” she says. Note: We’re rooting for you on this one!
2. Take It Off…in Broad Daylight
Nude swims are risqué at nighttime and even more so in broad daylight. “Go skinny-dipping together somewhere private one afternoon,” says Alisa Ruby Bash, a marriage and family therapist in Beverly Hills, Calif. “Feeling like you are getting away with something and could get caught adds the perfect spirit of adventure. Do a little research to find an out-of-the way beach or lake. Not coupled up? Invite your crush. Just a tip: Bring protection, because this kind of frisky behavior can escalate quickly, if you know what we mean.
3. Go Commando on a Date
Put your laciest, sexiest undies to good use, suggests Jennine Estes, a marriage and family therapist. “When you are out to dinner, excuse yourself to the restroom, take off your underwear, and slip them into his pocket without saying a word when you come back; it will drive him wild,” she says.
4. Play Teacher
“Pretend that your lover doesn’t understand anything about sex; it’s your job to teach him,” says Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D., author of The Happy Couple. The caveat? No verbal cues. “You cannot speak, and only gestures and looks are allowed. Let it go wherever you want it to as long as you both feel comfortable and are having fun.” he says.
5. Kiss a Guy With a Foreign Accent
Though there’s no scientific proof to support our theory, we’re pretty sure that foreign guys almost always make incredible kissers. Plus, hearing them say, well, anything with that accent feels like foreplay. Take a cue from relationship expert and author Lisa Daily: “Whether you’re traveling abroad or just hanging out at a friend’s barbecue, there’s nothing steamier than kissing a sexy foreigner.”
6. Rent a Hotel Room
Whether it’s a Mad Men-style lunchtime rendezvous or pretending to pick each other up at the lobby bar, role-playing in a new environment can add a lot of excitement. Share a few fantasies and choose one (or two) to act out together in a luxe hotel room. “The point is to try something new together and get out of your comfort zone in a way that is mutually respectful and enjoyable,” says Bash.
7. Read a Flirty Book in Public
Before Fabio was pushing fake butter, he was posing for mind porn (also known as romance novels). Jane Greer, Ph.D., author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship, has a tip for single girls: “Read 50 Shades of Grey or another similar sexy book in public,” she says. Chances are, guys will notice. Be sure to look up and smile a few times to give him the OK to strike up a conversation.
8. Get Out of Town
If you’re single, any time you visit a new place, make it a point to meet a sexy local guy. “Go on a few dates with a local and have him take you around to the hot spots. It’s a great way to get an insider’s view of a foreign place. And always bring a pair of sexy panties on vacation, because you never know,” says Laurel House, a relationship expert and founder of Screwing the Rules.
9. Throw a Singles Party
Call your single friends and have them each bring two more singles to a summer party at your place (or a local bar). Once the cocktails and food have been served, you can even play a throwback game of spin the bottle, suggests Daily. “It’s just as full of possibilities as you remember, without the braces,” she says. Truth or Dare is an equally fun (and sexy) ice-breaker.